RESOURCES
Everybody will experience a tragic moment at one point in his or
her lives.
That moment doesn’t have to define you!
When you are out and about in public,
and you see that kid or adult who looks different, or speaks different, or
behaves differently, don’t stare. Did they ask God to make them who they are?
No. Did they do something wrong to be considered different? No. These unique
and exceptional people have the right to live their lives just as you and I do.
They just have to work harder for things that might come easy to you and me.
However, I can guarantee you they have a gift that you’ll find fascinating and
possibly, envy. See, God created everyone with their own personality, quirks
and interests. You and I are different. So why discriminate against someone?
You are just as different as anyone else is. It might be tucked away and
hidden, but you are different, too. Let’s accept everyone. Let’s be tolerant of
each other’s differences and not judge. You aren’t hurting just that person by
your lack of tolerance. You’re hurting the individual’s parents, friends,
family, and even yourself.
I included a number of these resources
in the back of Destructive Silence and Destructive Choices. I have provided
these once again because so many women and men face domestic violence every
day. It is hard for those who have not walked in the shoes of the victim to
understand how difficult it is to gather the courage to finally leave. I applaud
everyone who has taken that step, and I pray that someone who is reading this
and going through a similar situation will take a leap of faith. You are not
alone, and you do not deserve to be treated with anything but the utmost
respect!
Alcoholism and codependency were thought
to go hand in hand until recently. This addiction affects every race, religion,
and social class. It is serious and can lead to immoral activity such as child
abuse, domestic violence, assault, and more. Persons afflicted with the disease
usually isolate themselves from their loved ones as well as the world around.
Many people turn to alcohol to cope with grief and stress. When a spouse or
parent drinks to cope, they are unknowingly putting a wedge between alcohol and
the ones they love. This person becomes dependent on something innate to feed
their need for comfort. People with codependency often form one-sided
relationships, and it can be a learned behavior often from a dysfunctional
family member. A dysfunctional family member can be deemed as chemically
dependent, by either alcohol or drugs, victim of physical or sexual assault or
untreated mental health. Most people who fall into these categories come from
families who didn’t deal with the issue they faced in a healthy way. These individuals
are at risk of adapting by disengaging themselves from healthy relationships.
SUICIDE
You are NOT alone!
1.800.SUICIDE
(1.800.784.2433)
National Suicide
Prevention Lifeline 1.800.273.8255
Please learn the risk factors and
warning signs so that you can help someone. When there are multiple risk
factors, the risk of an attempt is much greater.
Suicide.org
· Suicide.org's
mission is to prevent suicides, support suicide survivors, and educate the
public about suicide.
· http://www.suicide.org/index.html
American Foundation for Suicide
Prevention (AFSP)
· AFSP
is the nation's leading organization bringing together people across
communities and backgrounds to understand and prevent suicide, and to help heal
the pain it causes.
· http://www.afsp.org
BIPOLAR
DISORDER
You are NOT crazy and you cannot change your genetic material!
Bipolar disorder, also known as
manic-depressive illness, is a brain disorder. Those who suffer from the
disorder and are left untreated can have poor school and/or job performance, damaged
relationships, unproductive lives that can all lead to suicide. The normal ups
and downs that everyone experiences are much stronger, even severe.
International Bipolar Foundation
· International
Bipolar Foundation's mission is to eliminate Bipolar Disorder through the
advancement of research; to promote and enhance care and support services; and
to erase associated stigma through public education.
· http://www.internationalbipolarfoundation.org
National Institute of Mental Health
(NIMH)
· NIMH's
mission is to transform the understanding and treatment of mental illness
through basic and clinical research, paving the way for prevention, recovery,
and cure.
· http://www.nimh.nih.gov
National Alliance on Mental Illness
(NAMI)
· NAMI
is the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to
building better lives for the millions of American affected by mental illness.
NAMI advocates for access to services, treatment, supports and research and is
steadfast in its commitment to raise awareness and build a community for home
for all of those in need.
CHILD
ABUSE
Because it is NOT okay to hurt a child - they may hurt MORE than
you realize!
CHILDHELP
· Prevention
and Treatment of Child Abuse
· Their
mission is to meet the physical, emotional, educational, and spiritual needs of
abused, neglected, and at-risk children. We focus our efforts on advocacy,
prevention, treatment, and community outreach.
· National
Child Abuse Hotline: 1800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453). Calls are taken 24/7.
DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE
It is NOT okay-There are NO excuses!
U.S. National Domestic Violence Hotline
at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) and TTY 1-800-787-3224.
The National Domestic Violence Hotline
· Providing
advocacy, safety planning, resources and hope.
· http://www.thehotline.org/
DomesticViolence.org
· Domesticviolence.org
offers information for those who have lived with abuse and those who are
currently being abused.
· http://www.domesticviolence.org
Many abusers are so controlling their
victims are not allowed to use the phone or internet. If you are in need to use
the internet to report abuse and cannot get to a safe computer, both of the
links above have quick access to the information you need. But remember, there
is always a trail.
BE safe, but most of all, BE smart!
CODEPENDENCY
You do NOT need someone else to make you happy!
Co-dependency is an emotional and
behavioral condition that affects an individual’s ability to have a healthy
relationship. It is also known as “relationship addiction” because people with
codependency often form or maintain relationships that are one-sided,
emotionally destructive and/or abusive.
Mental Health America
· 1-800-273-TALK
http://www.mentalhealthamerica.net/go/codependency
ALCOHOL
AND DRUG ADDICTION
You do NOT have to use it to cope!
The main symptom that defines an
alcoholic is if the person continues to drink once it’s caused problems with
work, relationships, drinking and driving occurring on a continued basis. If
you have concerns, there are a number of resources out there that can help.
· Substance
Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration - www.samhsa.gov
TEEN PREGNANCY
You have options. You
have support. You are NOT alone!
Centers
for Disease Control offers resources for parents and teens from prevention to
parenthood. CDC advocates a national campaign to prevent teen and unwanted
pregnancies. You can find more information on the link below.
The U.S. Department of Health &
Human Services can help you find a family planning clinic. Use the link below.
MISSING
AND EXPLOITED CHILDREN
Report crimes against children!
24-Hour HOTLINE 1.800.THE.LOST
(1.800.843.5678)
National Center for Missing and
Exploited Children (NCMEC)
· NCMEC
is the leading nonprofit organization in the U.S. providing assistance to law
enforcement and families to find missing children, reduce child sexual
exploitation and prevent child victimization.
· http://www.missingkids.com/home
DISABILITIES
Being unique is a
beautiful blessing!
If you or someone you know has a
disability or learning difference, I cannot stress enough about the importance
to learn the law and their rights. Do not expect information to fall into your
lap.
Americans with Disabilities Act
· The
U.S. Department of Justice provides information about the Americans with
Disabilities Act (ADA) online and through a toll-free
· ADA
Information Line. 1-800-514-0301 (voice) 1-800-514-0383 (TTY)
· http://www.ada.gov
National Dissemination Center for
Children with Disabilities
· For
more than 2 decades, NICHCY has been the center providing information to the
nation on: disabilities in children and youth; programs and services for
infants, children, and youth with disabilities; IDEA, the nation’s special
education law; and research-based information on effective practices for
children with disabilities.
· http://nichcy.org
after September 2014 visit http://www.parentcenterhub.org
Wrights Law
· For
legal advice regarding Special Education, please speak to an attorney. Valuable
facts regarding the law can be found http://www.wrightslaw.com
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